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[DisturbedMania]

I am done with the lies and deceit that I have put up with. I am sorry, but I cannot continue in a place that spends more time hurting me than making me smile. This post is not directed at the entire board, just those that have told lies about me. I can't even keep track of all the deception that went on. So, I have no way of even stating my side of the story- everyone already believes the other party. I have suffered enough and for this new year I will not continue with things that hurt me.

Good luck to all of you. Keep your heads up and take what you hear with a grain of salt. Hopefully what has happened to me will never happen to any of you.

Much love,

Brandy

[Guest Megalicious]

=( Im sorry Brandy =( ::hugs ..... we'll miss you ... =( But I understand where you are coming from ... you got to do whats best for you honey =(

[Jarodaka]

No accounts are being deleted.

[DisturbedMania]

Jarod if I call you and tell you why will you delete it?

[Blackmail]

Let's hear your side of the story then.

By the way, I havn't heard the other side either so if someone wants to present arguments and counter arguments I would be willing to make an impartial judgement.

Wait. Did that come out right?

Oh yeah, Jarod please delete my account. Thanks.

No wait, don't.

I think Disturbed Mania should stay.

DGN has more drama than most sattelite dishes.

Did you delete my account yet Jarod.

Good, don't.

I am not drunk, I swear.

What?

[Guest Game of Chance]

I'd like to think that I'm speaking for the majority of the board when I say that you should stay. No one cares about or listens to the drama...I don't know any of the parties involved, nor am I exactly sure what's going on.

It certainly is no reason to leave.

Now, the boredom factor...maybe

[soothsayer]

I am done with the lies and deceit that I have put up with.  I am sorry, but I cannot continue in a place that spends more time hurting me than making me smile.  This post is not directed at the entire board, just those that have told lies about me.  I can't even keep track of all the deception that went on.  So, I have no way of even stating my side of the story- everyone already believes the other party.  I have suffered enough and for this new year I will not continue with things that hurt me. 

Good luck to all of you.  Keep your heads up and take what you hear with a grain of salt.  Hopefully what has happened to me will never happen to any of you. 

Much love,

Brandy

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

You are not the only one to have gone through that. I think I can relate to how you feel. It sucks when someone does that and tells everyone what a nice person they are. I'm sure this post will get deleted.

[DisturbedMania]

I tried to be as non-specific about the situation as possible because there are alot more things than what anyone sees involved in this situation. If I get specific I am bound to be attacked further. I just want this account gone so that minimal contact exists between myself and some other persons.

[Guest Game of Chance]

Can't just block 'em, huh?

[DisturbedMania]

Problem is..... I don't even have a full list of the people that no longer like me and it is constantly growing. Rather than slowly blocking the entire board I'd prefer that I no longer exist on this board.

[Mikielikesit]

Hi and Hello I don't know you and I don't know what is going on in your life with people on this board or people off this board, but if you allow people to push you around and rent space in your head then they have already won whatever battle you may think is going on. I believe you should go on with your life and don't let small minded people have so much power over you. People can only do to you what you allow them to do so do not pay attention to these people. There is a saying and it is ......"The people who mind don't matter and the people that matter don't mind." or there is another way to put it "FUCK UM!!!!!" Don't let these people control your life. The poison these people spread will always come back on to them, so don't lower yourself to thier level.

I hope this helps, Good luck

[Guest Game of Chance]

Exactly.

[LuluVox]

If you don't want to exist on the board, then don't post. Seems like the easiest solution to me.

[Guest Game of Chance]

That too.

[Homicidalheathen]

I like you and want you to stay.

I too have brought drama to this site but won't again, I refer only platonic freinds now that I don't really hang out with and that kinda sucks.

Just ignore shit you don't like. Maybe take a break and come back in a few months.....we will miss you.

[Jarodaka]

Jarod if I call you and tell you why will you delete it?

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No.

If you don't want to exist on the board, then don't post. Seems like the easiest solution to me.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

That's all there is to it.

If anything, deleting your account is *worse* as all your posts will remain intact, with your name next to it, but you will not be able to edit your posts.

[Marblez]

Problem is..... I don't even have a full list of the people that no longer like me and it is constantly growing.  Rather than slowly blocking the entire board I'd prefer that I no longer exist on this board.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

If you want, we can remove your ability to send/receive PMs. That way no one can send you harassing messages.

You can remove the ability for people to email you and to receive emails from the board. This is done using your control panel.

[kellygrrrrrl]

I can't even imagine what people think of me.....based on my posts...that are usually ill thought about before posting, sick in nature, usually at my downest times, my posts have been misinterpreted, and misinterpreted again, but honestly, you will get that on any forum.

People are quick to point out "Spelling errors, say things that may not be true, they will debate you, disagree with you, and probably roll thier eyes at you. But who cares.

You live and learn. computer etiquette sucks. It's hard to write in tone and attach expression to words.

But that is the beauty as well.

You shouldn't leave.

Chances are, whatever you think that someone thinks about you, they've probably forgotten it by now......

Stay Stay!

[ManicQueen]

I can't even imagine what people think of me.....based on my posts...that are usually ill thought about before posting, sick in nature, usually at my downest times, my posts have been misinterpreted, and misinterpreted again, but honestly, you will get that on any forum. 

People are quick to point out "Spelling errors, say things that may not be true, they will debate you, disagree with you, and probably roll thier eyes at you.  But who cares. 

You live and learn.  computer etiquette sucks.  It's hard to write in tone and attach expression to words. 

But that is the beauty as well.

You shouldn't leave. 

Chances are, whatever you think that someone thinks about you, they've probably forgotten it by now......

Stay Stay!

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

First of all "downest" isn't a word. And remember to capitolize at the beginning of a sentence. :laughing I'm just playing with ya

As for DisturbedMania.. don't let people run you off of the board. If you leave then they win or at least they will think so. If someone is threatening you via PM, you can always forward it to a mod and let them handle it too.

Just a thought =)

[Onyx]

I am done with the lies and deceit that I have put up with.  I am sorry, but I cannot continue in a place that spends more time hurting me than making me smile.  This post is not directed at the entire board, just those that have told lies about me.  I can't even keep track of all the deception that went on.  So, I have no way of even stating my side of the story- everyone already believes the other party.  I have suffered enough and for this new year I will not continue with things that hurt me. 

Good luck to all of you.  Keep your heads up and take what you hear with a grain of salt.  Hopefully what has happened to me will never happen to any of you. 

Much love,

Brandy

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I haven't heard a thing, but I never listen to things like that. I always get to know people on my own terms. I hope you might come back after you take a break for awhile. (((hugs)))

[kellygrrrrrl]

First of all "downest" isn't a word. And remember to capitolize at the beginning of a sentence.    :laughing  I'm just playing with ya 

As for DisturbedMania.. don't let people run you off of the board. If you leave then they win or at least they will think so.  If someone is threatening you via PM, you can always forward it to a mod and let them handle it too.

Just a thought  =)

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

*Snicker* Snicker*

Smarty Pants....

[Blackmail]

I clicked on this thread because I misread it, I thought it said "Gods", which I of course thought was someone trying to get ahold of me.

[Draco1958]

I had my share of some drama and almost left the board. Now let me state right off that I am not comparing my drama to yours. I have no idea what you have been thru and I can honestly say mine wasn't that major, just seemed like it at the time. I talked to someone on here I feel I can trust for an honest opinion and got it. It was to stay, avoid letting it hurt me, let those who I feel I can be friends with know my side but otherwise avoid the other party and move on. And I am glad I did. I am making more friends and the drama has stopped, we came to an agreement and I am glad. I guess what I am trying to say is that talk to those you feel you can trust to listen with an open mind to give your side. Hang with those you are comfortable with, avoid the trouble makers amd move forward. Keep your head high. I know nothing of what is going on and truthfully not worried about learning about it. Don't take that personally, it just means I want to stay out of it. I do however hope to meet you one day, who knows, we could be good friends in time. I judge a person by their actions and if I think they did something wrong, I am willing to hear why they did what they did. Now do what you feel is best for you altho from what I have seen, a lot of people care and will miss you. And truthfully I will miss not having the chance to become a friend. Think about this, no matter where you go, what site you join, drama will always happen. It's up to you to rise above the BS, show people how wrong what is being said is, and show that you are the better person overall. Sometimes we have to stand up for ourselves and say enough is enough. It's how we do it that shows the person we are. I know this sounds more like lecture and I apologize for that. Guess I am just trying to get your attention even if in the wrong way. I wish you the best whatever you decide to do. Just remember that there are people here who care and will miss you and some people hoping to make new friends here which includes becoming your friend.

OK, I'll go back to the quiet corner now.

[DarkChylde]

I believe im lost as well, I dont really have a clue whutz going on and im sure I wouldnt give a shit anyways. Brandy, I always gotten along with ya, you've helped me out a couple times and I'll always respect ya for that. I do apoligize for not being much socaible like I use to though, im going through some serious shit and its been fogging my mind really bad lately. On and all I have nuthing against you and still consider you a friend, I know you been in a very shitty situation as well, but whoever is making false rumours/storys ect. ect. Dont pay no attention to it and let them think whut they want to think, alot of others done the same thing to me as well but I dont let it bother me cuz I know who my real friends are and they know me way lot better than that, and im sure your real friends know who you really are as well. Life is a very cold depressing battle ground, sometimes ya just gotta stick with your little click of friends and say fuck the outside world.

I hope you are ok though as a friend, I do get concerned.

[ZhukovCodeslinger]

Problem is..... I don't even have a full list of the people that no longer like me and it is constantly growing.

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I totally know where you are coming from on this one... I know nothing about the situation you are in, but I know what its like to have everyone hate you (though in my case its for speaking my mind without moderating things to spare people's feelings)