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[Draco1958]

I'm done posting for a while. I am tired of anytime I express an opinion, someone has to automatically take offense like I am ragging on them. Seems like anytime I post, someone finds it wrong. I have seen some very rude posts and yet people just laugh it off yet I am made to feel like I am knocking them for one reason or another or being a.....anyway, so they win. Unless it can be a neutral non threatening sounding post, I will avoid making any posts. I am tired of offending people when I am not trying to.

[phee]

I am sorry you feel that way... can you give an example?

[Head Wreck]

you seem to be among the top most inoffensive and level headed people on here.

stick around chief, who cares what one asshole thinks, just stick them on ignore

[soothsayer]

I was never offended.

[Steven]

dont worry so much Draco - your a good guy.

[torn asunder]

people will do/say what they will, no matter what you do, so, do your own thing. as long as you know in your mind you're not insulting anyone, that's all that matters. honestly, some people in life will take offense at anything. of course, at that point, it's all on them, so you're still in the clear. stick around, dood...

[Wounds Within]

I have never been offended by anyone on DGN.

I wouldn't worry about it man. I think most people here respect the ideas and opinions of others.

[Draco1958]

I prefer not to give any examples. I do want to state that I am not mad at anyone over this. I have a lot going on with trying to get up money for my Mom's burial, job hunting and such with depression thrown in. It's just that it seems some people have thought my posts reflected something that was not my intent. And it's not just one person. It just seems that some of my posts are taken in the wrong light so I am going to back off posting for a while. So before I really put my foot, leg and possibly hip in my mouth, I'm gonna back off for a while. I'm not leaving...wait that's another thread. Just needed to vent a little about this and I hope it's taken just that way, just a vent from a build up of frustration and nothing more.

[JaneDead]

I have never been offended by anyone on DGN.

I wouldn't worry about it man. I think most people here respect the ideas and opinions of others.

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i was offended once... it was great.

not really but i got over it.

it had to do with the pope and masterbating. :doh

[Mikielikesit]

i was offended once... it was great.

not really but i got over it.

it had to do with the pope and masterbating.  :doh

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What you like watching the POPE masterbate now thats really twisted ........

Oh yeah don't worry about it fuck'em if they can't take a joke and joke'm if they can't take a fuck

[honeymustard02]

[Awwww :( I like you, I don't think I've ever had a problem with your posts.

[Lilith]

Draco please dont be so hard on your self, even if myself or others have been. We all make a post here and there that might offend or upset some one. Cant please every one. There are allot of good people here, all at there own palce in life, dealing with there own troubles and not one of us is perfect.

I think we all know your intent here is not to upset any one and i dont think any of us want to loose your sweetness.

I would only love to see the best for you and to see your pain end as i can imagine with those things gone hwo bright you will shine and perhaps run rings around allot of us.

Just beacues there is conflict does not mean you have to stop being friends with the others involved, does not mean any of us wish you to be a non poster.

I do respect the fact you feel pain and wish to refrain, you do have to do what you feel is best for you.

I would like to suggest doing a google search about funding your moms burial, i cant remeber all the ins and outs but i do know there are program out there to help with burial costs. I have never used any of these so i dont how they work or even where to look but i have heard of people getting help with most if not all costs. I will ask with in my social circle if any one knows of such things and if i come upwith anytihng i will send it your way.

I wish you well in all you encounter.

[Draco1958]

Thanks Lilith. My mom's cousins came thru and paid the FH the $291 to cover the cremation and death certificates. However I still won't be able to do a memorial as I had hoped at this time unless the pension company does a payout inwhich case I may be able to do something. I just want to get this over as I feel like a jerk for not even being able to pay the FH myself. Makes me feel like a bad son, a let down to her. Oh well, forgive the mini rant. Feeling down today.

[Steven]

Thanks Lilith.  My mom's cousins came thru and paid the FH the $291 to cover the cremation and death certificates.  However I still won't be able to do a memorial as I had hoped at this time unless the pension company does a payout inwhich case I may be able to do something.  I just want to get this over as I feel like a jerk for not even being able to pay the FH myself.  Makes me feel like a bad son, a let down to her.  Oh well, forgive the mini rant.  Feeling down today.

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you do the best you can my friend, like all of us.

much better to live your life as well as you can, as a tribute to her - than to worry about what you could not do after her departure....

....and if there is a heaven, and she's watching, then she knows your heart allready, and so how can you go wrong? you cant. Peace to you Draco.

Steve

[Hellion]

:devil Definately stick around,your a very honest,intelligent,good person,you are very important to DGN.

[Lilith]

i asked around and none of my closer friends have ever encountered such a situation. Gesh i wish i could remeber who i heard it from about getting assitance in these cases.

Dont feel bad about the memorial, it took me 9 mouths to a year to get a head stone for my mom and not because i did not have the cash, i was wrapped up in other things that should have been put on hold. I was weak and did not stand up for what i knew was right.

Your mom knows you love her and i am sure she understands, you know what is right and wish to follow that direction but are being held up by circumstances out of your control, no one can fault you for that. Just do the best you can and know that is ALL any MOM expects from her son/daughter.

I agree with steven

"you do the best you can my friend, like all of us.

much better to live your life as well as you can, as a tribute to her - than to worry about what you could not do after her departure....

....and if there is a heaven, and she's watching, then she knows your heart allready, and so how can you go wrong? you cant."

As for your cousin helping, that is what family is about, they take care of each other, they help in time of need. I am sure one day it will be your turn to help in some way. Also remeber this is your cousins Aunt and i am sure there are feelings of love and want for her in there heart as well, you are not alone in this, lean on those who are going through this with you, the give and take of support would only make your MOMs heart jump with glea and i cant think of a better memeorial for a mom then for her to watch those she invested her life into to support each other and become closer and live a long successful happy life.

[Draco1958]

Thank you all for your kind words. The family helping is her cousins, some of whom she even babysat due to a big age difference. So it's almost like they are returning the favor by taking care of her now.