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Well, in 7th grade my first b/f and I were together for about 45 minutes. LOL

My last relationship lasted just over a year, and I've been with my current boi just under two months.

Anything before that is debatable as far as "relationship" status goes.

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*ponders and reaches back into ze' old memory baggage*

6 months

1 year

1 year

4 months

4 years

date,dates, dates, misery, grumpiness

6 months

argh!! the horror!! why did I give him the time o' day??

*6 months of dates, humped a few guy friends who had been lurking around in hopes...*

ARGh! more horror! I can't do this, the poor souls~

2.8ish years

Now 3 years or so and counting~

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9 days, because after 8 he kinda creeped me out, then 2 weeks for quite a few, because I got bored with them, I think the longest was the one I out lived, I can't say we ever broke up, and I'm still not at all over him in any way, it's been over a year since I lost him. I think I've had way to many short ones and had lots of time inbetween most of them by choice, now I can't seem to find anyone at all to even cuddle with.

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From a couple months to a few years. I'm in it to win it, so to speak when I get involved with a woman. Sigh...seems they aren't up for that though

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Eleven in my marriage that ended on great terms oddly enough.

Four years in my latest relationship.

The shortest was 2 months about 14 years ago , the guy was impossible. I kept hanging on, didn't have much esteem and he knew it.

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6 days... I had to break it off, it was like I was kissing a brick wall...

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6 months with one, 8 with the other.

I've only been in two relationships.

I've come to the conclusion I'm a really shitty boyfriend.

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My shortest was like a day or two. I was in middle school I believe and everyone has some rather short relations during this time. My longest is 5 1/2 years and still counting and before that I was with another for 4 years.

5.5 years and counting...That is because he doesn't count the "breaks" he took from Jaimie. HE WAS LIVING WITH ME for almost a year when this post was made. I had only known him since the beginning of 2005. So there is no way I am the 5.5 years. I got the same story though, He told me he had only ever had long term monogamous relationships, but when I asked him how many sexual partners he had, he said "too many to remember" Sexually active from 16-17 (so he said) to 28 with at least ten years of "monogamy" eaten up by only two women, would keep his partner count well below 5, unless he whored himself like mad for a year in between. Which he claims he has never been "like that".

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6 months.

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I think my shortest was my first, clocking in at 3 months and one week.

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Shortest might have been a month. But never longer than 3 months since high school.

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I think my shortest was about a week or so.

Thats what I get for dating stripper friends.

It was a wild time though :thumbsup: . Then she flaked.

Oh well. Guess it wasn't a relationship, more like a really long one night stand. hehe

Shortest real one was about a month.

Longest was with the girl I was married to for a year. We were together total for about 6 years.

Current has been about 2 years, looks to be "the one". And I couldn't be happier. :peanutbutterjellytime:

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Shortest was a guy that goes to CC that you probably all know - so I won't mention names. I spotted him on Myspace and noticed he lived in the same city and thought his style was fab so I added him. When asked why I added him he was like "Cool well we should hang out sometime or something, since we live right in the same city" Hanging out lead to cuddling, which eventually led to making out which eventually...well I'm sure you get where I'm going. The course of it took I think 2 - 2 1/2 months. But after we did it at the end of that 2 months he got really distant it was odd, but people who knew him told me that he does this with girls all the time and that he's a huge slut....so I just let him go 'cause I was all "eww...possible STDage...I'll pass" I was so mad about it though because he played the game and seemed sooooo genuine about liking me, not like some nasty boy-whore, but I guess everyone gets deceived at some point or another. At least I'm with someone now who I know doesn't sleep around and doesn't cheat, so that's all that matters :wub: .

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my first girlfreind was about a week ahhaa i wasnt allowed to call her oranything her dad would have shot me

well my second gf was about 3 months

then third was an intense 2 years we stopped for a year then tried it again for maybe 6 months i got dumped for a guy that lives two houses down the street

fourthwas about 2 days i was used as a rebound and jelousy device so she could get her xback

fifth lasted about 2-3 months

and now ive been"officially" single since feburary with a relationship type thing ending in june

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Chris: 3 months and some odd weeks.

Christ round 2: 2 weeks

Ray: 4 months and about 25 days

Brian #1: 7 days

Nate: 4 months and about 23 days

Don: A week

Dan: A few days

Brian #2 (( the one I'm keeping )): 4 months, Friday. =3

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3 days.. the asshole...

longest relationship was 2 years... yeah...

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one year

4-5 months

2 years

3 months

one month

a couple weeks

.......now going on 6 months

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Longest: 4.5 years.

Shortest: 5 months

Curently: Um 2 years... *I really don't count our break up for 3 months*

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I think that the shortest length relationship with a serious boyfriend was like 2 1/2 months if I remember correctly

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I told my g/f that even my meaningless flings have meaning usually.....that they turn into life long friends eventually and that I would never see anyone less than 6 months......USUALLY, and she said quote; THATS A LOOONG TIME!!!

6 months is a long time????

I think thats kinda um shallow and meaningless lol

Personally I think 6 months is short even for a occasional booty call type friendship.

Wonder if she wants me to keep it quick and short so she can have her way with me more often......cause I have been to busy for her lately.

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I have been in many very short-term [by that, a couple of weeks] "relationships" with a few people by my choice.

When it was up to "them" the relationships usually average to about a few months.

Am I cursed? :confused:

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4 years max.

Been single for the past few years. All hope is lost. I'll stop now before I go into a rant.

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Lets see befor I was married most of my relationships only lasted at the most 4 months and that was on the long side

Other then Hubby which it will be 5 years in May and we dated for 4 years befor that. I've only ever had what I would call one other long relationship which was about a year and a half. That relationship ended in Death and was just hard and I don't like to talk about it. I would rather remember the fond memories I had with that person.

I decided a long time ago that I didn't need another Man or Woman to make me happy. So when they started to annoy me, (not trying to be harsh) I got rid of them.

What I am saying that untill I met Parra Bellum I would have rather of been single then put up with someone I really didn't like.

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Awwww, you're making me feel warm and giggly. ;)

Before I got married to the lovely lady above, I really didn't have relationships, I had fuck-buddies. That was about it. Nothing romantic. She's my first real love. :swoon

Love ya, hon.

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