damnit

[Slept with ghost]

yarrrrr i am single again

im not leaving the board but i do need to take a break from the club to get my life striaght

[bean]

*hugs* Now who am I supposed to yell "yarr" with? hehe. Take all the time you need.

[DarkChylde]

yarrrrr i am single again

im not leaving the board but i do need to take a break from the club to get my life striaght

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Holy fuck, sorry to hear that man. I thought you guys were inseperable too. I still have your number, im'a try giving you a call sometimes.

[n0Mad]

Aww. I'll buy you a beer next time I see you. Wait, I already did that last time. Oh well, I'll do it again.

[FarrIL]

Aww hun!! So not cool or fair for a sweetheart like you!!

Tell you what.... seeing as though Spook's buying you a beer the next time he sees you, the next time I see you, I'll give you a kiss. K?

=3

[n0Mad]

the next time I see you, I'll give you a kiss.  K?

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I got dumped too you see, and ... uh ... (do you think it'll work?) *snicker*

[FarrIL]

I got dumped too you see, and ... uh ... (do you think it'll work?)  *snicker*

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

::: Crosses arms, taps foot and quirks her right eyebrow :::

<<AHEM>>

[Brenda Starrr]

What?

What was wrong with her?!? You're a catch and a half.

[FarrIL]

What?

What was wrong with her?!? You're a catch and a half.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I have to agree with this one.

[Brenda Starrr]

I have to agree with this one.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I don't get it. Why are there so many really nice people who can't find a good relationship? Do people really NOT like to be with someone who's good to them? It just confuses me.

[Brenda Starrr]

I'm treated very well. I also have a deep appreciation of it. I got lucky. I just wish everyone was as lucky. It's not fair.

[Msterbeau]

I don't get it. Why are there so many really nice people who can't find a good relationship? Do people really NOT like to be with someone who's good to them? It just confuses me.

Well... to be fair... just because it didn't work out doesn't mean there's anything wrong with either person. Sometimes it takes a while to realize the incompatibilities we might have with each other. Sometimes outside life events take their toll and make it difficult for ANY relationship to bear fruit. More problematic is that I think a lot of us (me included ) aren't always willing to put in the work to make some of the minor incompatibilities go away. We'd rather look for another partner that we think will be easier to live with. Maybe that's Ok... maybe not. *shrugs*

Sorry it didn't work out Dave.

[Slept with ghost]

let me explain this better a little bit

i dont have a car or a job and havent for the 8 months we were dating

she also has things to do with her life

but none of that seemed to be happening while we were with each other so we are split up for the time being

maybe one day we will be back with each other because we still love each other very much but now is not the time

[bean]

yarrr fucking yarrr. that is all.

[n0Mad]

I don't get it. Why are there so many really nice people who can't find a good relationship? Do people really NOT like to be with someone who's good to them? It just confuses me.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I ask myself that every day.

[DarkVampire]

yarrrrr i am single again

im not leaving the board but i do need to take a break from the club to get my life striaght

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Single sucks. Been at it too long myself.

Do what you need to do to get your life going again. :clover

[FarrIL]

Dave, I had the same problem with Ray.

He didnt have a car. I did. But I was barely bringing home decent paychecks and I had insurance to pay by the month. Insurance came first, fun later. The only time I got to "see" Ray was when he hopped online with a computer that had a webcam connected to it.

We rarely saw each other face to face.

This went on for just short of 5 months until he broke up with me. His life had a bunch of crap going on, as did mine with my mom and stepdad hovering over me.

So, apart we went. He said that maybe we'd get back together "when the time was right".

It isnt going to happen. Not for him and I anyway.

I'm not saying this'll be the same scenario, but I just wish you good luck either way.

[Hellion]

I don't get it. Why are there so many really nice people who can't find a good relationship? Do people really NOT like to be with someone who's good to them? It just confuses me.

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:devil That also confuses me too,There is nothing wrong with being nice.

[Guest Megalicious]

Well...  to be fair...  just because it didn't work out doesn't mean there's anything wrong with either person.  Sometimes it takes a while to realize the incompatibilities we might have with each other.  Sometimes outside life events take their toll and make it difficult for ANY relationship to bear fruit.  More problematic is that I think a lot of us (me included ) aren't always willing to put in the work to make some of the minor incompatibilities go away.  We'd rather look for another partner that we think will be easier to live with.  Maybe that's Ok... maybe not.  *shrugs*

Sorry it didn't work out Dave.

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Amen. Sometimes shit just doesn't work out. Why does eveyone have to take breaking up as a bad thing. Fuck if someone doesn't want you, you should have enough self worth to realize one if not more of three things.

(A) its their loss.

(B) If you have issues that they have brought to your attention that you know you need help with FUCKING DEAL WITH THEM.

© Take a step back I look at your behavior so you can LEARN from you mistakes.

let me explain this better a little bit

i dont have a car or a job and havent for the 8 months we were dating

she also has things to do with her life

but none of that seemed to be happening while we were with each other so we are split up for the time being

maybe one day we will be back with each other because we still love each other very much but now  is not the time

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Its sound like your not to happy with that. I suggest if your not happy that you take steps to better yourself and be more productive. No one can change anything about yourself but you. Have goals, and get motivation by keeping in mind what makes you happy (not to mention every now and then a pick me up (but thats just me) . The bottom line is eveyone has life goals. Everyone has some sort of philosophy that they live by, weither or not we are aware of it. People are looking for someone to share their life with that have thosse same goals and views. What is companionship for if not to share everything? Take this time to take a step back, and look at the things you want to change and make some sort of goal. Because the bottom of the line is ... (atleast what I gather from you post is) you SO wasn't getting anything done, not being productive ect . ect. So what happens when she gets her shit togther and you are no longer on the same level? Because she has evolved into this whole other person. If you value your relationship and do want to some day get back togther it takes work. Its just a matter of if your willing to give it all you have, to change for the better. No one can make that choice but you, that is if you want to change. For all I know you completly happy the way you are. Which is fine. Life goes on. Some times it just takes a while to get use to single life when youve had someone in your life. It just takes time.

But then again not all wonderes are lost.(I love your bumbersticker lol you know who you are)

[Nienna]

*hugs* Sorry to hear that hon.