One Minute Here, the Next, Gone

[EvilEve]

i'm very regreatful to report that one of my cousins has unforunetly lost her child that she's been carring for 5.5 months now. i'm not able to be with her at this time when she needs me most, and it hurts. i'm not able to symathize with this kind of loss. still trying to figure out if that's a good thing or a bad thing.

this can either be concidered a good thing, or a bad thing as well. she wasn't suppose to have the child, i guess. not the most polite thing in the world to say, but it's the only thing i can think of.

i was kinda hoping that it wouldn't come to the choice of choosing the child over my cousin, but if it hadn't been done, we could have lost them both. my cousin survived, the child didn't. =(

it's a sad time. drinking doesn't help much.

i wanted the child to live as well, but the higher powers choose otherwise. ... and that's ok, i think.

all my cousin needs is love and support through this depressing time in her life. hopefully, with enough of that, she'll be able to pull through this.

it won't happen right away, and i know this. it'll take time, like all things.

i hope she's ok. i love her. i've cried for the past 2 days thinking about her.

i don't know, needed something to talk about, and now i have. thank you for listening. respond if you want. you guys are the greatest. :cheerful

[Msterbeau]

You have my sincerest condolences. =(

[Mikielikesit]

I'm so sorry for your families loss but it was one of those things that was meant to be .........once again sorry

[bean]

That is a very difficult thing to deal with, I know from experience...my thoughts go out to you and your family.

[Steven]

Laura and I have gone thru this trying to have children....she just needs to greive for as long as she does...its a very real loss and I'm sorry.

Steven

[EvilEve]

i can say one good thing about the person that she tried to have this child with; he's stuck by her since she went into the hospital Thurs. (i didn't find out until Fri.) though i haven't met this guy she's with, for him to be there with her says a lot about the kind of person that he is. hopefully, (and i think he will) he'll stick with her through her time of depression, and stay with her even after that.