What makes you uncomfortable?

[phee]

When hobos feel my butt for free and refuse cash....

[DarkRacer]

When I have to make a difficult and possibly life changing decision.

Like within in the next few days.

[LuluVox]

Narcissistic bitches.

[Fierce Critter]

Being unliked.

Something I have always had a problem with, and am desperately trying to learn is not my problem, but someone else's.

I'm really trying to figure out how to be comfortable with someone having a negative opinion of me, particularly if it's based on a misunderstanding, miscommunication, or undue influence of a 3rd party.

As membership in the Critter Hater's Club grows, this is a skill I'd like to much better master.

Sometimes I envy the blisfully ignorant and simpletons. Oh, to go through life without opinion and awareness! How oddly enticing that can seem.

[phee]

Being unliked.

Something I have always had a problem with, and am desperately trying to learn is not my problem, but someone else's.

I'm really trying to figure out how to be comfortable with someone having a negative opinion of me, particularly if it's based on a misunderstanding, miscommunication, or undue influence of a 3rd party.

As membership in the Critter Hater's Club grows, this is a skill I'd like to much better master.

Sometimes I envy the blisfully ignorant and simpletons. Oh, to go through life without opinion and awareness! How oddly enticing that can seem.

I would be proud just to be important enough to have a haters club in the first place... but I am not cool enough :tear :grin

[Fierce Critter]

Believe me. It makes me neither important nor cool.

Paranoid, maybe. Misunderstood and/or misinterpreted? Definitely.

There I go again. Putting it on myself. "Is it me?" Yes. No. Maybe. Who gives a rat's ass.

[JaneDead]

what makes me uncomfortable?

-a bra that doesn't fit

-large crowds of people i don't know and talking all at once - i tend to hear and follow a LOT of conversations at once and the noise gets to be TOO much sometimes.

-people fighting. either physically or to the point of getting physical. i hate seeing people in pain and i hate seeing people cause other people pain.

-people telling me things i am not supposed to know. i hate when people tell me "gossip". i don't mean harmless little shit talk/opinions. i mean when someone out right tells me something that people are probably NOT supposed to know

-sitting for a long time

-standing for a long time

-migraines and other pains i get/have

and this:

quoted by kelly-

Being questioned on why I am so quiet.....NO, I am not upset, nothing is wrong and I am fine. If I have something to say, I will say it.

I observe.....I watch.....I am the fly on the wall.

I have always been "The Quiet" one.