Anniversary Query

[dawnadarkness]

My sugarpie and I will be celebrating our 10 year mark at the end of May. I want to do something special but I'm not sure what. He always goes out of his way for me. I want to return the favor. Any suggestions?

How long have you been with your S.O. and what do you have planned for your next anniversary?

[Kit Kat P]

I think we might go camping this ann. It's cheap and it'll be just the two of us.

I'd have to know you two actually give a sugestion, don't know your financial situation but a cruise is awesome.

[The_Dark]

Well...

As the wife and I just celebrated our 11th let me just say... Congrats. Marriges lasting this long are rare anymore.

As for plans... alone time together doing something that helps you capture how it felt when you celebrated your 1st year.

The wife and I spent the whole day with each other... kids away at friends.. work told not to even bother calling. We walked in the woods... went shopping for nothing at all in shops that had nothing in them we needed. We talked, alot, about what ever we felt like. We had dinner at a small diner... because thats the kind of food we like. We stayed in a hotel and watched vampire movies. We held each other... and at the end of the night... I thanked her for putting up with me for yet another year.

[kellygrrrrrl]

I got my Husband Sirrus radio subcription paid for 2 years, and the actual radio that you can buy prts for and put all over for all over sirrus.....He LOVED it, since he liked Stern so much....but that's him.

Does he like sporting events? Maybe a day at the ol' ball park with all expenses paid would be nice.

How about a weekend at Cedar point?(Or place of choice) You call, get him the time off, and suprise him the day before.

My next big thing will to get him the xbox360......but that will be for our next anniversary. I figure by then they should work out the bugs since it is so new.

(And maybe it will go down in price once it's out of demand as much)

A subscription to playboy? (Or mag of choice)

These were all things I did for my man, and he loved all of them.

But I know what he likes. Maybe this will spur some ideas!

GOOD LUCK! =)

PS oh yeah, We celebrated our 1st year as of feb 26th.....

HE took me to Frankenmueth where he proposed and proposed all over becuase he messed up the 1st time.

He's so sweet.

[Shade Everdark]

I don't have relationships that last very long, so I don't really have to worry about it.

I'll be strolling off into that sunset alone.

[Draco1958]

When I was married, we would go out to dinner, maybe a movie or rent one and just spend the time together, watching a movie and cuddling.

[Steven]

19 years as a married couple. our anniversary is this month on the 23rd. Havent figured out what were going to do yet - but I'd be nothign without Laura.

[Guest Megalicious]

Probably nothing. I try not to make a big deal out of them. Due to the fact that my ex I was with for so long would forget every year, everyyear I would have hope he wouldnt forget this year and every year I was let down. Its no longer worth me getting upset over.

[dawnadarkness]

I think we might go camping this ann.  It's cheap and it'll be just the two of us. 

I'd have to know you two actually give a sugestion, don't know your financial situation but a cruise is awesome.

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Oh. Camping sounds very nice. Do you recommend anywhere specific?

[dawnadarkness]

The_Dark - That sounds so nice. Alone time is always wonderful. I'm really starting to think this camping idea sounds pretty good.

kellygrrrrrl - Thanks! Congrats on celebrating your first year together recently. Frankenmueth is an awesome place. A sporting event sounds like a good plan too. Thanks for giving me some ideas!

Steven - Congrats on 19 years! That's amazing. Still as much in love as you were 19 years ago?

Megalicious - I don't normally make to big of a fuss over them but this is 10 years and since he does so much for me I thought I'd return the favor.

[Steven]

Steven - Congrats on 19 years!  That's amazing.  Still as much in love as you were 19 years ago?

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yeah, I really am.

I'm a one woman man, and a lucky one at that. She makes me laugh, knows all my secrets, and still stands by me. It dont get no better than that.....

[Marblez]

It dont get no better than that.....

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Yes it does. I mean, she could be beautiful too.

Oh yeah - lucky man that steven is.

[Steven]

Yes it does.  I mean, she could be beautiful too. 

Oh yeah - lucky man that steven is.

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thanks Darlin....

[Kit Kat P]

Oh. Camping sounds very nice.  Do you recommend anywhere specific?

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What area are you in?

[dawnadarkness]

What area are you in?

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I'm in the downriver area. (Allen Park) We're still sort of new to Michigan. Moved here from Portland about 2 years ago.

[Aralis]

Our one year fell on Easter this year so we didn't do much but we did go out to dinner the day before. Next year we plan to be in Vegas having a good time...that's where we got married!

[Homicidalheathen]

Good question.

My man and I lived together for a few before we got married, always talked of an open marraige and never felt the actual ceremony was that important.

So, we celebrate the first date. By having another on the same night.

We knew we would always be together since the first night, just didn't say it right away.....so it seems more fitting.

[Steven]

Good question.

My man and I lived together for a few before we got married, always talked of an open marraige and never felt the actual ceremony was that important.

So, we celebrate the first date.  By having another on the same night.

We knew we would always be together since the first night, just didn't say it right away.....so it seems more fitting.

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shoot....I married Laura 4 months after I met her, and when I met her she was 3 weeks away from her wedding. I asked her to marry me while we were standing in the rain, knee deep in the mud, out on Patrol (Army).

She said no.

Can ya beleive that?

In fact she said no a buncha times.

[kellygrrrrrl]

My husband popped me the "Do you ever wish you never got married?" question the other night..... :confused

he says to me, when you hear guys saying "Oh man, I'll never get marreid, I don't want to be stuck with one pussy for the rest of my life".....I start to think OH, Man, thats true, oh man,

Then proceeded to say, he's never done a black girl, never did an asian chick before, and so on...like it's something he was suppose to do before he got married, and now he'll never have that chance.

I said, yeah, I've thought that, but I would never concider anything otherwise.

He quickley said, after I think about it for a few minutes, I conclude that I am happy to be with you....Like Gee Thanks

:confused :confused :confused

Been on my mind a little bit.....

Sounds like he's having 2nd thoughts, either that or it finally sunk in.....yeah, married is real.

:confused

I let it pass, but I'been noticing some distance. Any suggestions to ease my non-stop brain that analyzes, and interprets everything it sucks in... =(

[Steven]

My husband popped me the "Do you ever wish you never got married?" question the other night..... :confused

he says to me, when you hear guys saying "Oh man, I'll never get marreid, I don't want to be stuck with one pussy for the rest of my life".....I start to think OH, Man, thats true, oh man,

Then proceeded to say, he's never done a black girl, never did an asian chick before, and so on...like it's something he was suppose to do before he got married, and now he'll never have that chance.

I said, yeah, I've thought that, but I would never concider anything otherwise.

He quickley said, after I think about it for a few minutes, I conclude that I am happy to be with you....Like Gee Thanks

:confused  :confused  :confused

Been on my mind a little bit.....

Sounds like he's having 2nd thoughts, either that or it finally sunk in.....yeah, married is real.

:confused

I let it pass, but I'been noticing some distance. Any suggestions to ease my non-stop brain that analyzes, and interprets everything it sucks in... =(

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your husband is young.

his observations are normal, as long as they dont become obssesive or worse - IMPORTANT. Its amazing to me how many bad decisions are made over sex....but then again I too have been guilty.

my advice is twofold:

1st - how bout some respect hubby? Cant exactly make you feel great to hear that shit, that would be like you talking about how much you miss those REALLY big dicks some of the other guys you dated had and how you'll never again have that kind of girth....

2nd - (after he snaps out of it) take that boy to bed and wear him out. Get a little crazy. As in he can only get that kind of lovin at home......

[phee]

your husband is young.

his observations are normal, as long as they dont become obssesive or worse - IMPORTANT.  Its amazing to me how many bad decisions are made over sex....but then again I too have been guilty.

my advice is twofold:

1st - how bout some respect hubby?  Cant exactly make you feel great to hear that shit, that would be like you talking about how much you miss those REALLY big dicks some of the other guys you dated had and how you'll never again have that kind of girth....

2nd - (after he snaps out of it) take that boy to bed and wear him out.  Get a little crazy.  As in he can only get that kind of lovin at home......

You are smart Steven.... really smart.... and a guy... who is smart