Revenge

[JaneDead]

i would never seek revenge on a person because that is not who i am.

but there are about 2 people that were in my life that i KNOW are going to or already have gotten their bad karma. what comes around goes around. he will get his fallennon. and you won't have to lift a finger.

[fallennon]

yeah, I've realized that one...

[Guest PumpkinPete]

I will say this - what you lose, compared to what you gain from revenge is what matters.

You lose self respect.

And you lose the last shreds of love or care you had.

It is freaking AWFUL when someone hurts you - cheats, lies, moves on - but it's better to take your dignity, the love and knowledge you gained, and to deal with things yourself.

I had a PATHETIC journal war with an ex and it still shames me.

We didn't get as nasty as some people, but that I even let it get to that bothers me.

Better to be sad, work on that, and move on, than to let them pull you down to a level that is never good to dwell on.

chris arrr

[TomCat]

i would never seek revenge on a person because that is not who i am.

but there are about 2 people that were in my life that i KNOW are going to or already have gotten their bad karma. what comes around goes around. he will get his fallennon. and you won't have to lift a finger.

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As I always say, Karma is a Bitch...ever meet my pistol,"karma?"

[soothsayer]

You want revenge Fellannon? Here is the best revenge and no one gets hurt. Living well IS the best revenge. Just go about your life and be happy. I know it sounds strange but it's true. Don't let things consume you inside it does you no good. Hope this helps.

[tabycat]

When people have done me wrong I don't wish or want bad things to happen to them no matter how much I may be hurting. I always hope they find the happiness that they want even if it wasn't with me. What goes around comes around they say... whoever "they" are.

It is hard to let go of those negative feelings you may have when you are hurting. I believe that unless you let go and embrace the good in life you will be shackled in your a very dark place. I always forgive the person even if I never forget what they have done.

Good luck with everything... =)

[TomCat]

Oh, and only do it if you won't face retribution, or know that ya won't get caught. :devil

[Guest PumpkinPete]

And remember, if you send out a werewolf or a robot mummy to kill someone, make sure that you specify that you need them to wash the dishes when they get back or they get back or the damn things just pile up.

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[Troy Spiral (13)]

Trying to "get back at" somone is usually a horrible waste of energy and time. Just try to move on. Stewing over something rarely makes it any better. Try to just get past it and cheer up.

I know its an easy thing to say , but hard to do. Let the bad things in your past be in the past. Dont empower them to control your present.

[Nightflyerswmn]

fallenon,

i have had just about the same thing happen to me. i went into the hospital 2 months early when i was pregnant with my daughter. in a new state that i moved to just a couple weeks before all because he asked me to. and the same as your situation, she was ay my house the whole time i later found out. my boyfriend never even came to see me at night. he would come on his lunch break for 15 min and that would be all i would see of him. one of his friends came by and told me that michael had went clubbing with some of his friends and his pussy of the month. while i was in my living room dying with those damn contractions, he even left me. i had to call one of his other friends to drive me to the hospital. now, is that lame or what? but anyway. on to my point... for a really long time i wanted soooo bad to screw up his relationship and his whole entire life. and for a while, i tried to get him to pay child support. but i later figured out that if his drug habit was more important than his daughter, then she doesn't need him anyway. she's way better off. but i agree with l&l, its good to get those feelings out of your mind by talking about them, but acting on them won't do any good. he'll later get what he deserves.