speak like a child

[Slept with ghost]

okay so im sure that anybody who knows me knows that i went thourgh a break up a few months ago but me and that person got along for sometime afterwards

well recently this person has decided to go a diffrent route with her actions towards me and to act like a little kid begging for attention

shes really throwing all she has at me

having her friend harass mine via AIM prank phone calls to my house phone and just a few minutes ago text messages to my phone telling me i shouldnt have got on her bad side

i dont even know why im on her bad side to begin with

ive blocked her from myspace lj and AIM and she still wont stop

for the most part im playing the role of the more mature person and ignoring all of this but i dont know how much longer i can do that for

has anybody else ever gone thourgh something like this and if so how did you deal with it any advice would help

thank you

[DJ Nocker]

Yes I have....and the same thing happend being that my x's friend called me and said "You shouldnt have gotten on her bad side." well....im a vengeful person, and as stated in other forums, can be a reall asshole, so i fought fire with fire, and i won, of course this probaly isnt the best action, but when that girl threw that threat at me, it set off a bomb.

I dont like being threatend, by anyone.

[DJ Nocker]

probably what you are doing is the best idea, also the most difficult though.

[Guest Megalicious]

Honestly Dave, I know your a nice guy. But dont let her treat you like this! Dude, I know you would never harass her likeshe is you, your not that kind of person, but take this in mind.

Catch her in the act, try to record any IM's/phonecalls you get that are threating or just harassment in general.. then go to the police and file a restraining order against her. I dont know how it works for guys, but when me and Bob first broke up .. I had to get one ... he would call at all hours of the night, show up outside my work ... ect ect.

Of course everytime I would call the cops they would say there was nothing they could do ... so I got a phone that let me record phone conversations =) (not to mention caller ID) .... When I had a bit more evidence .. the restraning order when through like "that" =)

As you know it helped, I know it was just because we had been togther for so long, and he thought if he could talk to me he could win me back (like so many times in the past) He stayed away and I took the time I needed .. and after that we became friends. I know its not the same kind of situation, but you dont need that shit. Or shit change everything .. get your number changed ... I know its sad that you have to make changes, but childish people like that aren't worth the hassle.

[Slept with ghost]

well she just called a little while ago and went off on some rant and i told her to get a clue that i dont want to talk to her any more and to piss off she simply said whatever and hung up so i hope thats the last of it

[Guest Megalicious]

Just tell her everytime she calls "we are not togther, why are you calling me?" ... and leave it at that .. if she starts yelling and carring on .. hang up ... Dont let her manipulate you .. becasue that is what she is doing.... and you have a choice now, you can let her .. or you can just hang up on her. the choice is yours =)

[Slept with ghost]

eh the choice is only somewhat mine though if it was up to me then everything would be fine but she wants to act like a child and im not putting up with it any more

i dont like having to drop people out of my life but she really leaves me no choice

[Hellion]

:devil Yeah Dave you definately explained everything to me when you called me up a few days ago.Just ignore her,cause she definately needs to get a life.

You a cool dude,always stay that way.

[pharoh]

Choke the bitch :devil lol

[Guest Megalicious]

Choke the bitch :devil lol

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Now, now Al lets not be crazy now lol .... :laughing

[Blackmail]

okay so im sure that anybody who knows me knows that i went thourgh a break up a few months ago but me and that person got along for sometime afterwards

well recently this person has decided to go a diffrent route with her actions towards me and to act like a little kid begging for attention

shes really throwing all she has at me

having her friend harass mine via AIM prank phone calls to my house phone and just a few minutes ago text messages to my phone telling me i shouldnt have got on her bad side

i dont even know why im on her bad side to begin with

ive blocked her from myspace lj and AIM and she still wont stop

for the most part im playing the role of the more mature person and ignoring all of this but i dont know how much longer i can do that for

has anybody else ever gone thourgh something like this and if so how did you deal with it any advice would help

thank you

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

speaking of myspace, why am I not in your top 8 anymore? I'm on your ex's side until you rectify this matter.

oh and as far as your problem it sounds like you are doing all you can do, other than changing your number (which costs like $35 thru cingular) there isn't much else. She isn't fitting the criteria of a PPO so just politely ask her to stop and don't respond to anything she does. If you want more in depth advice put me in your top 8 and write me a PM.

you're a good man Dave, you don't need no playa hatas up in here.

[Slept with ghost]

oh it got even worse today she seems to have ruined anything that might happen between me and a friend of mine

its just lovely

oh and im taking care of the top 8 problem as we speak but i have to be on yours and im not talking about the music site either

[Blackmail]

oh it got even worse today she seems to have ruined anything that might happen between me and a friend of mine

its just lovely

oh and im taking care of the top 8 problem as we speak but i have to be on yours and im not talking about the music site either

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

ok I will put you in mine.

what's her myspace name? pm it to me. I'll make your little problem go bye bye.

[Slept with ghost]

hahaha see that would be a grand idea but the point is not to sink to her level

thank you for the offer though

how does 7th place sound its higher then my sister gets and is a lucky number to most

[Blackmail]

hahaha see that would be a grand idea but the point is not to sink to her level

thank you for the offer though

how does 7th place sound its higher then my sister gets and is a lucky number to most

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well I need her myspace name so I can add her and put her in my top 8.

[Slept with ghost]

hows that going to help?

[Blackmail]

hows that going to help?

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

That's what I'd like to know.

[Slept with ghost]

well ill tell you if you tell me

[Blackmail]

well ill tell you if you tell me

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so Dave, what did she do today to piss you off?

what do you think her reasons for doing this are?

is she hot?

[Slept with ghost]

she IMed a friend of mine and pretty much caused them not to want to talk to me any more because she is being harassed to much by my ex and her friends

because shes crazy

and no right now she is the most unatractive thing in the world

[Blackmail]

she IMed a friend of mine and pretty much caused them not to want to talk to me any more because she is being harassed to much by my ex and her friends

because shes crazy

and no right now she is the most unatractive thing in the world

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

do you think she wants you back and is handling it in an immature manner?

or do you think that she hates you otr something?

would you tap it right now if you were drunk?

[Slept with ghost]

she has a new boyfriend and says she wants nothing to do with me

she probally does hate me

no

[Blackmail]

she has a new boyfriend and says she wants nothing to do with me

she probally does hate me

no

<{POST_SNAPBACK}>

if she wants nothing to do with you then why is she doing this? I feel there is a key piece of information you are not sharing.

What's her myspace name, I just want to see what she looks like before I take action. I am a man of action.

[Slept with ghost]

lies do not become you

okay let me think shes upset because she thinks i was being vague to her about this new girl i am talking to (though she already had a boyfriend at this point and why i should have to tell her anything is beyond me) and thats really it

[bean]

I know people who know people that take care of problems like these. Call me.

K, but seriously, when she calls be like "fuck off, bitch." and hang up on her. Don't say anything else and don't let her get a word in..after a few rounds of that she will stop calling.