Why do DGNer's do this?

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did you just ask why people take sides???

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[Steven]

All I can say is that I'm sorry to have posted that...I let my emotions get the best of me...and I acted incredibly immature and over reacted...I'm so sick of drama and try to avoid it...yet..I cause more drama in my fear of losing freinds...I fear I'll lose freinds but probably cause more loss of freinds in that fear...My apologies will be given to those whom I need to apologize...again I apologize to the board and it's members for my immaturity...

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this sort of humility always gains my respect.

Well done.

[mallochai]

this sort of humility always gains my respect.

Well done.

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Ditto that.

and in retrospect... snarf?

[Brenda Starrr]

All I can say is that I'm sorry to have posted that...I let my emotions get the best of me...and I acted incredibly immature and over reacted...I'm so sick of drama and try to avoid it...yet..I cause more drama in my fear of losing freinds...I fear I'll lose freinds but probably cause more loss of freinds in that fear...My apologies will be given to those whom I need to apologize...again I apologize to the board and it's members for my immaturity...

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You were hurting. That's why you posted it. You certainly don't deserve to be berated for feeling pain.

*hugs*

[ZhukovCodeslinger]

Wow I missed somthing... I hope I didnt accidently piss someone off without noticing it.

[TheAbsynthFairy]

Its very true. Reading that was hurtful to me, especially since everyone commented without even knowing my side of the story...but more so because this is personal and should not have been brought to this forum in the first place. I do not know anyone here (with the exception of 2 people) well enough to discuss my personal life with, no less do the things I was accused of. But in DBKS defense he is just hurt over what is going on right now as well as I am. Thank you for pointing this out blackmail. People not knowing two sides to a story and commenting is premature.

[Brenda Starrr]

Wow I missed somthing... I hope I didnt accidently piss someone off without noticing it.

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It's always more fun when you do notice it.

[The_Dark]

No kidding. Whats the point of pissing people off if you can't enjoy the show afterwards?

[Blackmail]

Its very true. Reading that was hurtful to me, especially since everyone commented without even knowing my side of the story...but more so because this is personal and should not have been brought to this forum in the first place. I do not know anyone here (with the exception of 2 people) well enough to discuss my personal life with, no less do the things I was accused of. But in DBKS defense he is just hurt over what is going on right now as well as I am. Thank you for pointing this out blackmail. People not knowing two sides to a story and commenting is premature.

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I wasn't "berating" DBK or even singling him out. He did apologize, which is cool, though he doesn't owe the DGN community an apology.

It wasn't just that thread, it's several threads.

People jump in and claim someone is a villain and they don't know them nor do they know the entire story.

[ZhukovCodeslinger]

ok... someone PM me with a short synapsis of what was said before it was deleted. I NEED to know what side to join.

[Brenda Starrr]

Don't take sides. Ted will be pissed.

[JaneDead]

or someone might make a fake myspace about you and try to slander you for not being just how they think you should be

[Brenda Starrr]

I'm not sure which is worse......

[Msterbeau]

Wow I missed somthing... I hope I didnt accidently piss someone off without noticing it.

If you'd get your damn nose outta the books once in a while and pay attention, you wouldn't have this problem, would you? A little less learning and a litlte more post-whoring please.

[JaneDead]

I'm not sure which is worse......

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i don't know ... i think they are both about the same

[TheAbsynthFairy]

I wasn't "berating" DBK or even singling him out.  He did apologize, which is cool, though he doesn't owe the DGN community an apology.

It wasn't just that thread, it's several threads.   

People jump in and claim someone is a villain and they don't know them nor do they know the entire story.

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I never thought you were, and he doesnt deserve to be berated. He was clearly hurt..just as I am...and his apology was a mature thing to do. I more than agree. What I am saying is you are right about people jumping on board without knowing two sides to the story. With that said...I like to keep drama free so I am over all of this.

[ZhukovCodeslinger]

or someone might make a fake myspace about you and try to slander you for not being just how they think you should be

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Too late, I already made one about myself when I was bored a few weeks back. It says that I am balding and that I have a small penis.

(notice I said small penis not HUGE PENIS)

[JaneDead]

:laughing

[DeadBurgerKing (10)]

Too late, I already made one about myself when I was bored a few weeks back.  It says that I am balding and that I have a small penis.

(notice I said small penis not HUGE PENIS)

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Thats really encouraging...I think I'll make one as well...now...how to slander myself...more like where to start :laughing :woot: :laughing

[TygerLili]

If anything, when people post about personal issues with someone else on here it makes me feel bad for the other person and want to hear their side of the story. I don't know why people post about personal issues on a public message board, but I know if anyone I was close to posted something about me for the whole world to read I'd be hurt and appalled.

And I'm not singling anyone out, I've seen this lots of times on DGN.

[Daevion]

Why whenever someone brings up a personal issue on DGN do people automatically take their side?

Usually someone will say "this person is a liar or a cheater"

and then DGn people will reply "oh you don't need them, sorry they are being a jerk" (or "evil" in a recent case). 

You don't know the whole story but you're willing to pass judgement anyway? 

Does it bother you that the person being villified may also be a DGN member and read it?

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Hell no, I don't take sides unless its mine.....which is of course always the truly righteous, just and noble side. I can't possibly be villified because I can do no wrong and everything I do is a shinning example to the community of how one should conduct themselves.

[Hellion]

:laughing AAHHHHH The Drama States of America!!!

[Morbid Side]

I don't get involved in any of my friends fights and when I do I completely isolate myself from their drama.

[Hellion]

I don't get involved in any of my friends fights and when I do I completely isolate myself from their drama.

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ME TOO!!

[pharoh]

God dammit I have missed all of this, I aggree with BM and I won't be commenting on any more threads like that cause the last time I did I got alot of grief, sometimes it's just better not to say anything at all