Question For The Women

[predaking]

I was engaged once, I popped the question when I was 20. My ex and I had talked about it on more then one occasion prior to it, we were at her parents house when I did it (I even talked to them about it). We were making breakfast and I asked her to finish up while I got somthing out of the bedroom, I left the box in the fridge with a note. I was in the room when she found it, she screamed yes and ran to the room crying... needless to say we didnt eat until ALOT later. well long story short after the planning and picking the date she cheated on me and that was that.

even after that, if I found someone who I could be with for the rest of my life then I would pop the question again but, there would be somthing sexy ( I think thats the word i'm looking for) if she asked because it would be out of the norm.

[hunhee]

There was nothing romantic about the way my ex and I decided to get married, like all things in my life, it was practical. We were getting pressured into marriage by my parents, and by his mom, so we decided since we'd been together seven years, we would make that year the year.

That was the worst year of my life.. (none of it because of him), I completely changed, and my life's focus changed, and our relationship just didn't suit us (or me) anymore. He changed as well. Neither of us realized it, but our goals in life weren't the same. I was in a fog for the first year and a half, and then when I awoke from that fog, I needed something more in my life, and we tried to make it work for like a few more years, and then we just decided it wasn't working for us, and since we didn't have any kids, we decided that it would be for the best to pursue our own agendas.

We remain best friends to this day.

I'm not sure marriage is for me, I highly doubt I would ever walk down that path again.

It just isn't for some people. *shrugs*

[Msterbeau]

I'm not sure marriage is for me, I highly doubt I would ever walk down that path again.

It just isn't for some people. *shrugs*

I'm pretty sure I won't either. Who knows.

[creatureofthenyte]

I think it would be cool if the woman proposed.

However, me being single at the present time, I feel

disconnected from the topic in a way.

If I ever get married, which to be honest, at this moment, I do Not see happening, I would probably be the one to propose.