Commitments And Friends.

[littlepinkkitty]

I feel like every time i get a close girl friend i lose her for some reason. Usually they move away. I want a best friend and i dont know if i have ever had one and that hurts. Everytime i get that close with some one they leave my life for some reason and it makes me feel like shit. I'm always there for them. Sometimes i am afraid to share my feelings with them because i dont want to lose them as a friend. Sometimes i feel like even though someone is walking all over me they are still there. I dont want to sound desperate for friendship its just that some times i feel so alone and that i have noone to confide in or trust anymore.

[Constantin]

alright bailling on a friend is shitty unless for a good reason.

GOOD REASONS

reason #1- getting a piece -yes people this is a ligit reason we as a friend must accept it when a friend is about to get some because it is worse of a friend to cock block or pussy block however you want to say it. and i mean come on you would want them to understand if you were in there shoes. (does not apply to the sluts you get enough as it is if you cant take a day off then bye bye)

reason #2 -death-self explanitory

reason #3- sick-again self explanitory

reason #4- work - we must accept it when a friend gets called in for work because the way the economy is jobs are hard to keep.

thats all i got for now pls feel free to add on to the list for people to reference in the future.

[creatureofthenyte]

I can relate to this thread, man can I ever.....

I have tried to turn it around in my life and make myself a stronger person.

I try to make myself happy by doing things I enjoy, because I never know when I'm gonna get let down again, which has been going on for longer then I care to admit.

It has been a struggle for me, but I'm doin it.

[Bernadette]

Well, I'm supposed to be helping a friend work on some kayak techniques as we speak.

She called and canceled, at least at 11pm last nite, so I didn't get all packed up and ready to go.

She's been burning the candle at both ends, so I can't get too upset by it. Plus, I got to sleep in.

(normally, I would have been annoyed -- thinking, you want my help... and you cancel? whatever)

[Guest Megalicious]

This is why I don't have "friends" per say. I know I am to busy to hang out and interact. There for I don't make an effort too.

So instead of being the one who always cancels plans. I just don't make them.

Edited to say;

That doesn't mean I don't like you and don't want too!!!!

[phee]

Committing to anything with life the way it is for us right now is kind of like playing a scratch and win lotto ticket, awesome if it actually happens but sort of like rubbing a penny on some colored waste of money.... OK so its a really crappy analogy that makes no sense... but the point is we never know until we are there if we can go somewhere.

[Hellion]

I make plans with three ppl and never had a problem,"Me, Myself, and I"