Psychotic Women And The Men Who Love Them

[Head Wreck]

crazy in the head, crazy in the bed...

robyn was all out spontaneous fun. she made me smile whatever mood i was in as soon as she walked in and made me feel good.

she did however have a history of bouncing from one night stand to another with either gender and we hooked up after living in each others pockets for months around collage campus as we were both alien to the scene's we'd normally be in. the cool-to-be-crazy/bi-for-male-attention crowd who dominated the scene didn't get on with us as they thought:

I was the genuine article on crazy, a skinny goth kid who wore bright day glow colours mixed in with the black and climbed anything in sight

she was completely nutso, and had hit on a few of the faux-bi women with hilarious consequences

I wasnt lost in gawking at two girls kissing

we never had sycophantic music tastes and would express "thats shit music"

needless to say we gravitated towards each other due to this, and she was very inteligent, blew my maths ability out of the water (and i was at that time to do most things in my head, arithmatic and geographic patterns near instant, and fourier was a bit of mental summage. ironically i have to use a calculator to add and subtract to this day). she had confidence issues and i helped arrange with a landlord for a flat for her and built her confidence up.

she asked me out initially and i couldn't believe my luck. and never a dull moment.

but she still had issues with monogamy and things went pear shaped from there.

haven't spoken to her in a few years now. and i could never tell what was truth, what was imaginary with her. some days she was sincere about how things broke down between us, other days she doesn't seem to acknowledge anything more than good friends.

only dated one other girl since and things didn't work out well. she was cold and standoffish and i though things had just broken down between us so i dissapeared for a few years into uni, returning when the house of cards came crumbling down (financial and mental breakdown), and i passed by her in the street on the way to an interview at the employment office. i couldn't stop. when i came out she was in floods of tears on a bench, her friends giving me the "come near her again we'll kill you, mutilate your body, dismember you, disfigure the remains with acid before burning the remains in the woods" look. i'd damaged someone in just the same way i let a crazy women do to me.

swore i wouldn't do that to another person and stayed single until i got my head sorted. which took a few years, and then i realised i was happier not having to deal with or rely on people like that.

besides. plane tickets are cheaper just buying for one passenger

[Homicidalheathen]

Why not a thread about psychotic women and the females that love them?

12 phone calls after I left last night.

12. And 3 this morning.

*help me*

I need sleep to funtion at least a lil bit, ya know?

Bean was right, they are worse than men when they get strange.

[know_buddy_kares]

I've dated enough psycho women to know to ditch them at the first sign.. fuck their feelings.. staying with them only leads to very compromising positions.. they'll eventually get pissed off for no reason other than digging for an excuse to get pissed off to justify trying to fuck you over..

fuck you psycho bitches, I was glad to stay single and be a one night stand guy for as long as i did to find the one i'm with now.... she's not psycho at all... and i have such a hard time believing i'm with someone like her as it just always feels it's too good to be true..

but everytime i talk to her... sigh oh my god.. i want no one else.. adventure and excitement is there.. but not the unstability... i get plenty of emotional security from her, as well as steady routine.. this state of disbelief needs to wear off soon so i can peacefully enjoy what I have without psyching myself out.

[asphyxian_doll]

I've dated enough psycho women to know to ditch them at the first sign.. fuck their feelings.. staying with them only leads to very compromising positions.. they'll eventually get pissed off for no reason other than digging for an excuse to get pissed off to justify trying to fuck you over..

fuck you psycho bitches, I was glad to stay single and be a one night stand guy for as long as i did to find the one i'm with now.... she's not psycho at all... and i have such a hard time believing i'm with someone like her as it just always feels it's too good to be true..

but everytime i talk to her... sigh oh my god.. i want no one else.. adventure and excitement is there.. but not the unstability... i get plenty of emotional security from her, as well as steady routine.. this state of disbelief needs to wear off soon so i can peacefully enjoy what I have without psyching myself out.

Psychosis is also a product of environment.

"fuck their feelings"

...hmm....

[phee]

I could always tell when I was getting with a psycho.... the problem is that lonliness makes a man STOOPID and destroys good sense. If I had listened to my brain instead of everything else, I would have saved myself a lot of unhappiness... And the problem with caring so much for someone like that is their feelings are not based on anything you can control in regards emotional controlling their feelings when you give them a box of chocolates one minute they love you and drag you upstairs and fukk till you die of happiness... the next minute the scream at you for trying to make them fat when you know you are trying to diet, and throw the box of candy, all the jewelry you gave them, some coffee cups, and maybe a pet or too at you for being such an asshole....

Taking a "psycho" and her feelings into account is a little like playing Red Rover in a mine field.

[Miranda]

Why not a thread about psychotic women and the females that love them?

12 phone calls after I left last night.

12. And 3 this morning.

*help me*

I need sleep to funtion at least a lil bit, ya know?

Bean was right, they are worse than men when they get strange.

Because that's not what I was asking about. You are free to make a thread about that.

[Miranda]

I've dated enough psycho women to know to ditch them at the first sign.. fuck their feelings.. staying with them only leads to very compromising positions.. they'll eventually get pissed off for no reason other than digging for an excuse to get pissed off to justify trying to fuck you over..

fuck you psycho bitches, I was glad to stay single and be a one night stand guy for as long as i did to find the one i'm with now.... she's not psycho at all... and i have such a hard time believing i'm with someone like her as it just always feels it's too good to be true..

but everytime i talk to her... sigh oh my god.. i want no one else.. adventure and excitement is there.. but not the unstability... i get plenty of emotional security from her, as well as steady routine.. this state of disbelief needs to wear off soon so i can peacefully enjoy what I have without psyching myself out.

Passive aggressive behavior is what ends up happening.

[asphyxian_doll]

I could always tell when I was getting with a psycho.... the problem is that lonliness makes a man STOOPID and destroys good sense. If I had listened to my brain instead of everything else, I would have saved myself a lot of unhappiness... And the problem with caring so much for someone like that is their feelings are not based on anything you can control, you give them a box of chocolates one minute they love you and drag you upstairs and fukk till you die of happiness... the next minute the scream at you for trying to make them fat when you know you are trying to diet, and throw the box of candy, all the jewelry you gave them, some coffee cups, and maybe a pet or too at you for being such an asshole....

Taking a "psycho" and her feelings into account is a little like playing Red Rover in a mine field.

Pretty much.

Controlling anyone's emotions sane or insane is a crap shoot.

I think everyone is a little out of touch with reality.

All you can do is be HONEST, and love them the best you can.

I don't believe in co-dependence....its a long road to hell.

[phee]

Pretty much.

Controlling anyone's emotions sane or insane is a crap shoot.

I think everyone is a little out of touch with reality.

All you can do is be HONEST, and love them the best you can.

I don't believe in co-dependence....its a long road to hell.

Not so much about emotional control when giving theoretical box of chocolates... But being able to have a general ballpark of how someone might react to you is a good thing.... I mean if you say "bitch make me and my bowling buddies breakfast NOW!" she doesn't have to be a psycho to rip your balls off and beat you to death with a plastic hocky stick.................. BUT..................... If you walk into the house and ask her out to see a movie and she screams at you for being prick because you KNEW that there was nothing in the theaters she liked but you asked anyway like a jerk and then breaks your favorite cd in half.....

that is not about control, that is about some level of rational behavior of her emotions on her own level that should be for the most part accapted.

[Der Nister]

If you walk into the house and ask her out to see a movie and she screams at you for being prick because you KNEW that there was nothing in the theaters she liked but you asked anyway like a jerk and then breaks your favorite cd in half.....

It's like phee was there when it happened.

[phee]

It's like phee was there when it happened.

I was.... when it happened to me....

It happened to you too eh?

[TygerLili]

I think some people really thrive on the drama that comes with dating psychos. Some of them also like being able to complain about the drama their psycho SO brings, it seems, because they have nothing else of interest to talk about. None of that is specific to men either.

I also think that some men just date the psychos, at least in the short run, because they're don't think there are any normal women out there who want to have sex with them.

And hell, some men just have horrible taste in women and are an extremely bad judge of character. That's not specific to men either, but from my personal experience I can think of more men who fit this description than women.

[phee]

I think some people really thrive on the drama that comes with dating psychos. Some of them also like being able to complain about the drama their psycho SO brings, it seems, because they have nothing else of interest to talk about. None of that is specific to men either.

I also think that some men just date the psychos, at least in the short run, because they're don't think there are any normal women out there who want to have sex with them.

And hell, some men just have horrible taste in women and are an extremely bad judge of character. That's not specific to men either, but from my personal experience I can think of more men who fit this description than women.

All of these items are true I believe... I would add that the "non-psycho" in the relationship typically will have some horrid self esteem issues that keep them coming back for more.... (I know that from experience as well)

[Morbid Side]

Did anyone hear that Phee was arrested last night? FOR STEALING THE SHOW! That was epic sir. I laughed and laughed till my stomach hurt. Not at you, for your twisted tale of love.

[phee]

Did anyone hear that Phee was arrested last night? FOR STEALING THE SHOW! That was epic sir. I laughed and laughed till my stomach hurt. Not at you, for your twisted tale of love.

Oh man... it wasn't that funny at that time.... As I said that story is a combination of three and a half people.... *sigh*

But thank you

[tanuki1985]

I don't understand it, but I have also seen it happen. Many times.

It seems that most men and women -- no, boys and girls -- have a natural tendency to fall for assholes and bitches. I agree with Miranda that it makes it hard for those of us who don't fall under these categories.

[phee]

I don't understand it, but I have also seen it happen. Many times.

It seems that most men and women -- no, boys and girls -- have a natural tendency to fall for assholes and bitches. I agree with Miranda that it makes it hard for those of us who don't fall under these categories.

Yes it does.... I still have post traumatic stress syndrome when it comes to my ex's. Rayne has seen me all like whincing getting ready to get yelled at for not putting something back right, or stopping on the way home, or going out with a friend.... I act like I am about to get hit.... and then she is all like "OK" and goes back to doing her homework, while I am curled up on the floor waiting for the wrath that will never come....

[Der Nister]

It happened to you too eh?

Close, She made plans to be with friends and when those plans didn't pan out she got mad at me for having made plans that didn't include her (I should have known better right?).

So I was damned if I did and damned if I didn't.

[Onyx]

Sorry I am psychotically in love with my wife already...

Yes it does.... I still have post traumatic stress syndrome when it comes to my ex's. Rayne has seen me all like whincing getting ready to get yelled at for not putting something back right, or stopping on the way home, or going out with a friend.... I act like I am about to get hit.... and then she is all like "OK" and goes back to doing her homework, while I am curled up on the floor waiting for the wrath that will never come....

That is so damn sweet. I love it! You two are such an awesome couple and from what both of you have said here and there it seems you've both been through enough crap to really appreciate something good when you have it.

[creatureofthenyte]

Yes it does.... I still have post traumatic stress syndrome when it comes to my ex's. Rayne has seen me all like whincing getting ready to get yelled at for not putting something back right, or stopping on the way home, or going out with a friend.... I act like I am about to get hit.... and then she is all like "OK" and goes back to doing her homework, while I am curled up on the floor waiting for the wrath that will never come....

I kind of identify with this. I have been single for 18 months, and whenever I even just Think about getting involved with someone new, in my thoughts, I just revert back to my previous experience with ex's and then I feel tremendous stress, anxiety, and trepidation, and I find myself saying, I can't do that anymore(be involved with someone). I'd like to get over those feelings but I just can't still.

[phee]

Close, She made plans to be with friends and when those plans didn't pan out she got mad at me for having made plans that didn't include her (I should have known better right?).

So I was damned if I did and damned if I didn't.

Oh My.... I have been there.... I know exactly how that feels.....

[Nienna]

OMG Phee.... Your account of the Psycho is like dating (or even trying to hang out with) my best friend!!! LOL Maybe I'm hooked into the psycho too. GAH!