Would You Tell?

[Head Wreck]

Shup, HW!! You're not helping here! Do I have to fly across the pond just to spank you?

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again

Whad i do?!?

[dragoth]

Havent found any single ladies yet to even develope a crush on

The guy / girl ratio is like 6 to 1.

[Guest MsMaldoror]

Come on, they don't have to be single for you to crush on them...

Havent found any single ladies yet to even develope a crush on

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[torn asunder]

true, but that kinda defeats the whole point of this discussion, telling them, doesn't it!?

[dragoth]

true, but that kinda defeats the whole point of this discussion, telling them, doesn't it!?

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agreed, nothing good can come from it..........not that theres any good that comes from speaking of normal crushes ether*...

*at least in my experience, but I have been known to be adnomally unlucky. Starting with this reason is why I never make bets with any random based games (aka poker).

[SomeDanGuy]

Seems like a lot of people want someone to have a crush on them, but it just isn't happening. Therefore, I propose we start Cryptic Crushes. It'll be like Secret Santas, except you are assigned someone to have a crush on, rather than give presents to.

[dragoth]

...assigned someone to have a crush on, rather than give presents to...

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I guess im not following you corrently....explain a tad more :blink

<--never heard of this secret santa concept before

[Brenda Starrr]

You can't assign crushes!!! That's just wrong. Someone will pick an icky one for me! I hate Secret Satan....uh, Santa!

*runs away, crying

[dragoth]

I would agree with Brenda....

perhaps a group of other people can vote on someone to be crushed on? I donno...

[SomeDanGuy]

haha, I know. We'd probably get genders we didn't want too :laughing

Never had to do secret santas, huh? That's lucky. It's.......not worth explaining really.

[Medea]

I've already got a couple of DGN crushes. One of which has already resolved itself, and unfortunately, not in the positive way.

I'm the sort of person who would spend time with someone, feel them out (or up), and generally try to figure the person out before I went all "Hey, guess what! I totally dig you!"

However, I'm incredibly flirtatious, and sometimes people who I DON'T have crushes on think I'm all into them.

So sometimes it can be hard to tell if I have a crush on you or not. But usually the people who I am actually into figure it out after a while.

So, um, in short. Yes, I would tell them, IF I had a feeling they wouldn't be totally against the idea.

~mira~

[TomCat]

:whistling my lips will stay forever sealed.

[Brenda Starrr]

LOL....

Just like mine.

[torn asunder]

mine can be pried, but the price is HIGH!!!!! :devil :whistling

[Brenda Starrr]

How much?

[torn asunder]

tell you what = pm me some of your thoughts, and i'll say "yes" or "no"...

[Brenda Starrr]

Just admit that it's me. I don't care about the others....

[Guest MsMaldoror]

Not the case with me. I've had more than one person express an interest, but it didn't lead to anything. I'm just not interested in playing the field right now.

Seems like a lot of people want someone to have a crush on them, but it just isn't happening.  Therefore, I propose we start Cryptic Crushes.  It'll be like Secret Santas, except you are assigned someone to have a crush on, rather than give presents to.

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[Black Sunday9]

Not the case with me.  I've had more than one person express an interest, but it didn't lead to anything.  I'm just not interested in playing the field right now.

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who were these people who expressed interest in you?

let me guess....you're not interested in sharing. =(

[Guest MsMaldoror]

Better not to share on the forum. One situation was just embarassing as hell--for the both of us.

who were these people who expressed interest in you?

let me guess....you're not interested in sharing.  =(

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[Black Sunday9]

One situation was just embarassing as hell--for the both of us.

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That's exactly why you should tell us!

[Homicidalheathen]

!) fear of rejection, 2) fear of intimacy, 3) fear of embarrassement 4) fear of a hook up, I am just full of fear I guess. I don't think anyone would approach me I am like 40 years old and married. Oh and a sicko. Ha.

Most everyone here has made it known that they have one or more crushes here on the board. My questions are:

Have you told your crush that you're crushing on them?

If not, why?

Do you feel as though your crush wouldn't be happy to know?

Do you know if anyone is crushing on you?

What would you do/how would you react upon getting together with your crush for the 1st time?

The crush thread got so many responses, as well as triggered some new thoughts and ideas. Don't be afraid to answer. It's not like you're giving up the identity of the person(s)

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[Guest MsMaldoror]

You'd be up on the gossip had you gone to CC last Sat. :fear

That's exactly why you should tell us!

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[Black Sunday9]

You'd be up on the gossip had you gone to CC last Sat.  :fear

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Well I come to dgn so I don't have to go to CC and save $3.

and by the way this is an announcement to everyone. Stop sending me PM's telling me how much you love me.

Examples of what I am talking about.

BlackSunday9 you have got to be the hottest man I've ever laid my eyes on.  I'd like to take you into the back of the library and show you my card catalog.

Ted, just to let you know, I am wearing a special little number I picked up at lovers lane, I've attached a jpeg and trust me, it's not work friendly. rar!

You are one fine piece of ass if I do say so.

Hey man, I am not usually into dudes but let me tell you that your picture has me all hot and bothered.  I'd love just to hold your hand and run my fingers thru your hair.....when you don't shave your head. 

Sincerely,

Phee 

City Club bathroom. Stall #2.  Satruday night.  See you there.

[Guest MsMaldoror]

Hah! :laughing You forgot to mention Daniel though. I think he's your biggest admirer.

Well I come to dgn so I don't have to go to CC and save $3. 

and by the way this is an announcement to everyone.  Stop sending me PM's telling me how much you love me.

Examples of what I am talking about.

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