Would You Tell?

[Guest MsMaldoror]

He heard.

And?????

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[Brenda Starrr]

But, is it mutual? I love it when things go well!

I mean, you don't have to say. Just wink or something!

[Guest MsMaldoror]

But, is it mutual? I love it when things go well!

I mean, you don't have to say. Just wink or something!

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[Goth Brooks]

I have 5.. no 6 crushes already. No wait, 1 doesn't post here, so she don't count.. but she's an acquaintance... ok I have 5.5 crushes.

I haven't told 'em because well.. that'll ruin the fun! Besides, I never get rejected in my dreams

[Msterbeau]

msterbeau is relationship material, but he is hot.

So being relationship material and hot are mutually incompatible? :tear

[The_Dark]

For eye candy.. yes.

[Msterbeau]

For eye candy.. yes.

LOL... I'm not sure I get this... You're saying an attractive person cannot simultaneously be available for a relationship?

[The_Dark]

Well, how much candy is good for you?

Eye candy is just the same. I'm not saying that good looking people are not worth the effort, but most eye candy is just that.

[Brenda Starrr]

LOL... I'm not sure I get this...    You're  saying an attractive person cannot simultaneously be available for a relationship?       

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I'm a prime example of this.

[Black Sunday9]

Well, how much candy is good for you?

Eye candy is just the same. I'm not saying that good looking people are not worth the effort, but most eye candy is just that.

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You speak the truth about eye candy. One time I was staring at this beautiful women and the next day I had a cavity in my retina. My fovea was sore for a week after that.

[The_Dark]

I can deal with the retnia cavity's.. It's the fillings that hurt.

[Black Sunday9]

I can deal with the retnia cavity's.. It's the fillings that hurt.

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yeah, I'd rather have sharp stick in the eye.......

[Msterbeau]

Well, how much candy is good for you?

Eye candy is just the same. I'm not saying that good looking people are not worth the effort, but most eye candy is just that.

Ah...but it's just one piece we're talking about here. and the possibility of having that one peice over and over again for the rest of your life.

OK...Enough with the candy metaphors...

If I had a chance to be with someone I thought was hot... AND they were available and willing to have a realtionship... I'd do it in an instant... Assuming there was good chemistry....

I do agree, however, that many "hot" people that I meet, are not really suitable for a relationship.. Not with me.

[Msterbeau]

I'm a prime example of this.

Yeah...but the way Dark worded it... implied that this was not true of anyone...

[The_Dark]

sometimes I don;t word things to good.

[Msterbeau]

sometimes I don;t word things to good.

Join the club.. :whistling

[capuchin]

Most everyone here has made it known that they have one or more crushes here on the board. My questions are:

Have you told your crush that you're crushing on them?

If not, why?

Do you feel as though your crush wouldn't be happy to know?

Do you know if anyone is crushing on you?

What would you do/how would you react upon getting together with your crush for the 1st time?

The crush thread got so many responses, as well as triggered some new thoughts and ideas. Don't be afraid to answer. It's not like you're giving up the identity of the person(s)

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In the past when I've had crushes I'd never consider telling. One reason being simple shyness, but the other reason being that I think sometimes that "vibe" is kind of obvious with me, so if the other person wasn't doing something about it, they probably weren't all that interested and I wouldn't want to make for an awkward situation by bringing it up...