Tomcat Philosophises On Love.

[Guest MsMaldoror]

I don't like your philosophy, Tomcat. But, I have to agree with you to a point...

[Black Sunday9]

sorry!

[Guest MsMaldoror]

Thanks. I highly appreciate your assessment of my exes, esp. since you know them so well...

no.  you don't agree.  you've just dated a collection of idiots bigger than my comic book pile.  there's a difference.

that's what this is about for everyone here, you people have just dated the wrong people.  it's not that bad.  lots of people are happy together.

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[Black Sunday9]

Thanks.  I highly appreciate your assessment of my exes, esp. since you know them so well...

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No problem. That's what I'm here for.

[Guest MsMaldoror]

I don't date idiots. I've dated people with a variety of issues, but they were all intelligent. Maybe you should think before you post something next time.

No problem.  That's what I'm here for.

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[Homicidalheathen]

Ditto to that. Love sucks but I am an addict. Get my heart broken every other week just about.

That pretty much sums up my experience.. it'll be a long time before I let myself fall in love again... or stop loving the person I still do..

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[Black Sunday9]

I don't date idiots.  I've dated people with a variety of issues, but they were all intelligent.  Maybe you should think before you post something next time.

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ok sorry, I was pretty much joking around, I thought you knew that. I didn't mean to offend. carry on.

[Guest MsMaldoror]

I'm not in the mood for your bs, BS9. :confused

ok sorry, I was pretty much joking around, I thought you knew that.  I didn't mean to offend.  carry on.

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[MmeAnaya]

Love is like a knife fight. No matter who wins, everyone loses. Someone always gets cut up in the end.

Hearts best intentions are spilled onto the pavement, dry up, and blow away.

To survive is to insullate. To insullate is to isolate. And isolation is a slow death. But at least you get to choose your terms.

Sounds more like a grudge.....and the only thing a grudge is this: letting some punk MF-er live rent free in your head. Do you really want to give someone that much power, that much control over you?

I wouldn't.

Learn from your past. There is a plus to all of this. You learn what you don't want in a partner. You learn what does and what does not work for you.

Just let "it" (your past love relationship) GO...

Just my two cents...

[soothsayer]

It's very tough to see another's pov unless you have gone through something similar. Having said that I can say this, I think I have been through enough hell with women to be able to see where TC is coming from. I feel pian too, but I am channeling it into my music. If it pisses off a few people then good, because art is not meant to be sugar coated. That is how I deal with my past in case anyone cared to know. So yea ~ that's my 2 cents.

[Aralis]

I will quote a shirt we did sell at my work.

It is better to have lost a lover than love a loser.

lol...sorry...couldn't resist!

[JaneDead]

lol

[TomCat]

Learn from your past. There is a plus to all of this. You learn what you don't want in a partner. You learn what does and what does not work for you. 

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<~~he had been studying a lot, at the Fuck U, located in the Ass. :doh

For my next level of education, I'd like to try something less brutal, like Dating 205: "Not getting stabbed in the back," and take the corequisite Consideration 201: "Knowing when you're being taken advantage of."

With these two under my belt, I think I could handle anything. :whistling

[Brenda Starrr]

With these two under my belt, I think I could handle anything. :whistling

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You're so jaded. I'm just glad that I wasn't the one who jaded you.

[TomCat]

You're so jaded. I'm just glad that I wasn't the one who jaded you.

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Me too, I don't think I have the patience to write any more books about evil women. Not that I'm saying that you're an evil woman.

[Brenda Starrr]

Me too, I don't think I have the patience to write any more books about evil women.    Not that I'm saying that you're an evil woman. 

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Oh, but you are saying exactly that. I didn't say that you were wrong.