I just don't understand women

[mallochai]

update:

I asked her out last Friday to go out with me Saturday and she declined. I asked her if me calling her made her uncomfortable but she said 'no, it's not you, it's not you at all.'

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Hmm... not that I'm a wealth of information or anything, but this sounds funny to me. Too familiar. That's the kind of thing I said to other people when I was trying to break up with my boyfriend from high school, but still looking for a good reason to. I called it my relationship limbo, where I was halfway with someone I cared about, but trying not to be, or sometimes trying to make amends. I could certainly be wrong, but it sounds like she's got something occupying her time and/or emotions right now.

I'd have to agree with game of chance at this point. She sounds great, and it's obvious you're interested, but her plate might be too full for you right now. By all means, you should keep her in the back of your mind, and on your phone list, but try to refrain from setting yourself up. Sounds like you're doing a good job of that so far, just keep it up. And good luck man, looking for a quality relationship is hard work indeed.

[Homicidalheathen]

Sometimes people just want you to stay around until they find something better....either way it helps to adopt the same attitude and see other people when things are so up in the air like this...then you won't get your head/heart all tied up in knots worrying about what one person thinks all the time.

[Paint it Black]

Hmm... not that I'm a wealth of information or anything, but this sounds funny to me.  Too familiar.  That's the kind of thing I said to other people when I was trying to break up with my boyfriend from high school, but still looking for a good reason to.  I called it my relationship limbo, where I was halfway with someone I cared about, but trying not to be, or sometimes trying to make amends.  I could certainly be wrong, but it sounds like she's got something occupying her time and/or emotions right now. 

I'd have to agree with game of chance at this point.  She sounds great, and it's obvious you're interested, but her plate might be too full for you right now.  By all means, you should keep her in the back of your mind, and on your phone list, but try to refrain from setting yourself up.  Sounds like you're doing a good job of that so far, just keep it up.  And good luck man, looking for a quality relationship is hard work indeed.

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I'm still mulling over if I even want to call her or not. Figure I'll give her one more chance to show any interest.

Otherwise, I'm now prepared to move on.

At least we'll always have Paris, if you know what I mean?

:devil

[TomCat]

you never will. Figure yourself out first, and the rest is gravy