Pose a question to the group:

[n0Mad]

I still have one goal that remained the same- to find someone that loves me the way that I love them.  That one will be the hardest and will take most of my life.

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I used to have that goal, but I'm beginning to think that she doesn't exist for me.

[DisturbedMania]

Sometimes people aren't ready quite yet for each other. She may just have some more things to learn, possibly like yourself before you would make a good match. (that's my 2 cents)

[Saephyr]

Here's a good change up pitch question for ya...

Ok You're handicapped, literally, you do MOST thigns that you can get away with like hanging out, dancing, having sex and all. It really does hurt like all hell but the satisfaction level is MUCh higher than the pain factor once things get into motion right. So ...the literal question is this...do I push even harder to achieve a physical goal with myself or feel lucky I can do what I am and leave it alone???

I want real answers and not fluffy crap kids so hit it....... love yaz

[Draco1958]

While I am not handicapped I do have bad knees and a bad back which at times limits my mobility. I have found pushing myself just beyond the limit. By doing so I have found that my limits aren't as bad as they once were. I would say push a little past the limit carefully. Allowing yourself time to adjust. Sometimes the body will respond and work with you, sometimes not. But I believe it worth trying so long as care is taken to see if one's body will respond positively and strengthen itself so the limits one currently has can be changed, strengthening the body so to speak.

Here's a good change up pitch question for ya...

Ok You're handicapped, literally, you do MOST thigns that you can get away with like hanging out, dancing, having sex and all. It really does hurt like all hell but the satisfaction level is MUCh higher than the pain factor once things get into motion right. So ...the literal question is this...do I push even harder to achieve a physical goal with myself or feel lucky I can do what I am and leave it alone???

I want real answers and not fluffy crap kids so hit it....... love yaz

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[bean]

I am kinda handicapped right now too.  My doctor says with proper diet monitoring and the right situation I could work.....so I have not been able to get any money for it.

My last boss got mad because I was in the bathroom too much.  That is what is holding me back with music too pretty much.  I never know what is going to happen or when.  Missing a foot of intestine makes you rather unpredictable.

Also, my knee cap slides around now.  I don't dislocate anymore but my kneecap is fucked up.

So I may start playing Keys.  At least then I can sit on stage.

I just feel so old!  Everything is falling apart!

I know it sounds like an excuse but if my body were in better shape I would do more with my life.

I still get real sick sometimes and am not a reliable employee.

I want to find something I can do here at home.

Other than that I think my depression slows me down.  I would get more done if I lived in a sunny state.

I hate to say but my S.A.D. is already kicking in and it has only been cloudy 2 weeks.

Anyone else have this?

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I have S.A.D. too (surprise!) and it has hit me already. I really have to fight with myself to get out of the house and do things! I really would like to move somewhere that has more sun.

[Saephyr]

That's IT! get the tickets and I'll call Spoon and get us a place to sleep man we're the fuck outta here!

[paradox]

no.

[n0Mad]

All I can say is I feel farther behind now than I did before.

[bean]

That's IT! get the tickets and I'll call Spoon and get us a place to sleep man we're the fuck outta here!

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Yes!..Oh and to answer your question that you posted previously:

I say push yourself (but be careful!). The human body is an amazing thing, and who knows, pushing yourself could be the best thing you have ever done! Of course if things start to go downhill, then you should back off.

[Homicidalheathen]

Honestly don't do anything that will make it worse. If you cannot stand on your feet all day, don't. I took a job once because it was sit down. Well she started making me run up and down the stairs all day.

Within two weeks I was back on crutches for 2 months. And It had taken me 2 years to get off the damn crutches in the first place.

But I wanted that position that was to be opening up and thought if I could just hold out being her goffer for a bit longer...

Well it ended up making me have to quit working all together.

So not worth it!

Don't sacrafice your health.......don't compair yourself to others...know your body and limits and stick to what works for you, no one can pass jugement unless they have walked a mile in your shoes!

Here's a good change up pitch question for ya...

Ok You're handicapped, literally, you do MOST thigns that you can get away with like hanging out, dancing, having sex and all. It really does hurt like all hell but the satisfaction level is MUCh higher than the pain factor once things get into motion right. So ...the literal question is this...do I push even harder to achieve a physical goal with myself or feel lucky I can do what I am and leave it alone???

I want real answers and not fluffy crap kids so hit it....... love yaz

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[Saephyr]

I can't really do things that limit my already limited status.

I just ned to get up and out every day. No ...it's not that damned easy kids.

I wanna live!

[DarkVampire]

I do appreciate those who replied to what I said on this. I've been avoiding this topic since then which why I hadn't post again. I usually don't write or speak with my emotions taking full control, but rather a cool level headed approach is how I respond to things. This hit a raw nerve with me. Nothing has gone right since leaving high school fifteen years ago. Well I'll leave it at that since i feel another uncontrollable rant coming on.