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[Guest Megalicious]

 

I just want someone real in this life, who wants to talk to me face to face, and spend time with me, not IM all the time...argh!

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AND DONT DOUBT FOR ONE SECOND MY BEAUTIFUL FRIEND, THAT YOU DONT DESERVE IT !!!!! :::HUGS::::

[DarkChylde]

I know the whole "being ignored out of the blue" thing very well. Its happened to me too many times and I've grown litarly fed up with it, but luckily it hasnt happened to me over the past summer though.

Other than that I know its been a very very long time since we've spoken or called each other, but if you feel the need to talk ta somone your still welcome to send a email or call, I dunno if your number changed or not but if interested send me a personal message and we'll exchange from there, if you do I'll try to get back with ya soon as I can. I hope things get better for ya.

[Reaper]

Rebecca, I share the pain. Still my struggle and search goes on.

[Mzdeadlyspell]

UPDATE:

The other day my boyfriend never called, never emailed, or text messaged me. Things have been very hard for me lately, with job stress, holidays, hair disaster, all kinds of things. I got worked up and called him.

ANSWER: Sorry I got caught up in a video game for twelve hours and forgot to call..though I was thinking of you.

I figured fine, I guess I could see that happening, well then we talked, and I told him how lately I just do not feel that important, etc. He kept saying I could call him. I realize this, but it is nice to have someone call me every once in a while!

Well to make a long drawn out story short. Last night he said he would call me the next day when he got up, that he has a party to go too....

Right now it is about 5:16PM and nothing. I realize I could call him, but why? He has not made too much of a attempt to call or anything. I just am seriously about to break and just say F it.........I mean really why do some people pull this shit. Or am I just too damanding ? :(

eh............

[DarkChylde]

UPDATE: 

The other day my boyfriend never called, never emailed, or text messaged me.  Things have been very hard for me lately, with job stress, holidays, hair disaster, all kinds of things.  I got worked up and called him.

ANSWER:  Sorry I got caught up in a video game for twelve hours and forgot to call..though I was thinking of you.

I figured fine, I guess I could see that happening, well then we talked, and I told him how lately I just do not feel that important, etc.  He kept saying I could call him.  I realize this, but it is nice to have someone call me every once in a while!

Well to make a long drawn out story short.  Last night he said he would call me the next day when he got up, that he has a party to go too....

Right now it is about 5:16PM and nothing.  I realize I could call him, but why? He has not made too much of a attempt to call or anything.  I just am seriously about to break and just say F it.........I mean really why do some people pull this shit.  Or am I just too damanding ?  :(

eh............

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Screw him, he's not worth the effort anymore. Some people think that they can just sit there and do nothing yet expect others to come ta them (like coming over or calling). Its sickening but theres alot of shitty fucks who gets a thrill from it. Its hard to let go but thats all you can do at this point, life sux and it always will and part of the reason it makes us goth

[Hellion]

:devil I completely understand what you have been through, Years ago I dealt with that crap, and it took some time to recover. I hope things get better for you very soon.

[Mzdeadlyspell]

Thanks crank....yes I hope so too..I dont understand..I am always there for him and what not. And he knows I want some sort of reminder I am important. I guess I just am beating myself up..............

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[fever blister]

i guess im guilty of ignoring but thats only because i doubt the sincereness of other people. in my mind i figure im a burden to others and that the only time i should contact them is if its really really important, cause i dont want them throwing it up in my face whenever they get upset like "this muthafucka calls for no reason at all" or something.

[DisturbedMania]

i guess im guilty of ignoring but thats only because i doubt the sincereness of other people. in my mind i figure im a burden to others and that the only time i should contact them is if its really really important, cause i dont want them throwing it up in my face whenever they get upset like "this muthafucka calls for no reason at all" or something.

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I used to feel like that. And, I wondered why everyone else in my social group always seemed to get invited out more that me to do stuff. It's because they call each other to make plans and stuff or just call to talk. I figure calling every 4-7 days is enough unless you qualify as being close to the person. Otherwise you might risk calling too often.

[Draco1958]

You are not too demanding sweetie, I believe you are being very forgiving. My exwife liked to do that too. Not come home from work, instead go to a friend's and not call except once in a while the next day just before she went to work. So at times I wouldn't see or hear from her for 2 days. And it was always the same excuse...I was busy and had something important to do so I didn't have time to call you.

UPDATE: 

The other day my boyfriend never called, never emailed, or text messaged me.  Things have been very hard for me lately, with job stress, holidays, hair disaster, all kinds of things.  I got worked up and called him.

ANSWER:  Sorry I got caught up in a video game for twelve hours and forgot to call..though I was thinking of you.

I figured fine, I guess I could see that happening, well then we talked, and I told him how lately I just do not feel that important, etc.  He kept saying I could call him.  I realize this, but it is nice to have someone call me every once in a while!

Well to make a long drawn out story short.  Last night he said he would call me the next day when he got up, that he has a party to go too....

Right now it is about 5:16PM and nothing.  I realize I could call him, but why? He has not made too much of a attempt to call or anything.  I just am seriously about to break and just say F it.........I mean really why do some people pull this shit.  Or am I just too damanding ?  :(

eh............

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[ZhukovCodeslinger]

Thanks crank....yes I hope so too..I dont understand..I am always there for him and what not.  And he knows I want some sort of reminder I am important.  I guess I just am beating myself up..............

*hugs*

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He just does this because you allow it.