Divorce Is Too Easy

[creatureofthenyte]

... And that, my friend, is exactly what my ex husband said. You need to examine your thinking again about this matter, people change, it's the way of life, if they change in such a way that they are no longer compatable with you, you have to leave them, otherwise you will spend the rest of your life in misery, if you don't die of misery first.

You're right. Please accept my appology

Please also, allow me to expand on the thoughts that were in my mind at the time of my last post:

When I said, that when people get married, it should be for all time, that is or should be ideally the plan.

Like others have said, no one can predict if its really gonna workout until you try it and see. You are also right about the fact that people change. I guess it would be a test of How people change, and whether or not it affects thier marriage or not. Absolutely, if people change in such a way that they are no longer compatible together in the marriage, then they should leave each other. Most definitely also, if the relationship has turned into misery for one or both parties, then it should end. I think that saying that marriage should be for all time, is actually wishful thinking that can come to pass if the couple commits to making it happen.