Ever Have A Crush On Somone From Dgn?

[Guest MsMaldoror]

Who don't you like from DGN?

Day 5.  New crush has arrived.

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[Brenda Starrr]

Who don't you like from DGN? 

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Seriously...

[Daevion]

Who don't you like from DGN? 

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LoL :laughing

[Guest MsMaldoror]

You might be crush number six, Daevion... :woot:

LoL  :laughing

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[Daevion]

You might be crush number six, Daevion... :woot:

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:blink dang only #6, I should at least be #2

[Msterbeau]

wonder who that could be? lol

Um... yeah. Difficult to figure out huh?

[Msterbeau]

Who don't you like from DGN? 

I like everyone.

So sue me... or tie me up and flog me.. whatever.

[Msterbeau]

:blink dang only #6, I should at least be #2

Back of the line, pal.... :arrow

[Black Sunday9]

edited: I said too much!

to whoever started this thread: SCREW YOU

[Shade Everdark]

I am impervious to all crushings, crushees, or crushors.

[Black Sunday9]

I am impervious to all crushings, crushees, or crushors.

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I'm not a playa I just crush alot.

[Guest MsMaldoror]

Um, you started it, and you still haven't admitted to having any crushes yourself...besides Phee, that is...

edited: I said too much! 

to whoever started this thread: SCREW YOU

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[Black Sunday9]

Why does this feel like junior high?

[Guest MsMaldoror]

People never really grow up when it comes to relationships, dating, and sex. But, it's nice to meet someone new and have everything feel new and exciting all over again.

[Black Sunday9]

:blink

[Guest MsMaldoror]

Nope.

have you ever heard the song "the heart remains a child" by everything but the girl?    it's about what you just said above.

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[Msterbeau]

People never really grow up when it comes to relationships, dating, and sex.  But, it's nice to meet someone new and have everything feel new and exciting all over again.

I posted this elsewhere (Not sure if you saw it) but thought it very relavent to what you said. I wouldn't call it absolutely the only possible way our brains work, but's certainly very plausible in my view (and experience). Bottom line...I think your right for SOME, but certainly not all people.

Imago Therapy:

# We were born whole and complete individuals. We became wounded in relationships during the early nurturing and socialization stages of development by our primary caretakers (usually inadvertently, in relationships with parents who were doing their best).

# We developed a composite image of all the positive and negative traits of our primary caretakers deep in our unconscious mind. This we call our "Imago." It is like a blueprint of the one we need to marry someday.

# We marry someone who is an Imago Match; that is, someone who matches this blueprint of the composite image of our primary caretakers. This is important because we marry for the purpose of healing and repairing the unfinished business of childhood. Since we were wounded in relationship we need to repair in a relationship.

# Romantic love makes the selection and is nature's way of connecting us with the perfect partner for our eventual healing.

# We move into a power struggle as soon as we move into a committed relationship. The Power Struggle is necessary, for imbedded in a couple's frustrations lie the information for healing and growth. The struggle, however, is supposed to end.

# The first two stages of marriage, "Romantic Love" and the "Power Struggle," function at an unconscious level. For growth and change to take place, a couple needs to move into a conscious level of functioning.

# Inevitably our love partner is incompatible with us and least able to meet our deepest needs which results in re-wounding us again and again.

# The goal of Imago Relationship Therapy is to align our conscious mind (which usually wants happiness and good feelings) with the agenda of the unconscious mind (which wants healing and growth).

[TomCat]

You people are really too deep.

I have a couple crushes, so to speak, and to get this back on track, I'll spill it...

[Guest MsMaldoror]

Yeah, I noticed those looks you were giving Grant over pool the other night...

You people are really too deep. 

I have a couple crushes, so to speak, and to get this back on track, I'll spill it...

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[TomCat]

Yeah, I noticed those looks you were giving Grant over pool the other night...

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Yeah, Grant's a sweet piece of ass...LOL, I'm not going to fight you for him, you can keep him Msmaldoror. He's too male for my tates anyway. I want to have the only penis in my next relationship.

[Guest MsMaldoror]

But, aren't two penises more fun than just one?

Yeah, Grant's a sweet piece of ass...LOL, I'm not going to fight you for him, you can keep him Msmaldoror.  He's too male for my tates anyway.  I want to have the only penis in my next relationship.

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[TomCat]

No dueling swordplay for me, thank you anyway MsMaldoror. LOL

[Head Wreck]

yeah, when I started this thread I had no idea this group was so incestious.

I really didn't know that EVERYONE has a crush on someone else from DGN.

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technically my crush isnt on DG.n as she hasnt signed onto this forum

[Sybil]

wow you guys are just falling for people all over the place. who would have thought it?

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i burst laughing at this.... :woot:

<sits down next to Dynomiiiiite nodding and laughing.. hands her some popcorn.. guess there is a show to watch?!>

[soothsayer]

This is nutty.